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[deadlycin]
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I broke up with my fiance a little over a month and a week ago. I put up with so much of his crap through our year and a half relationship. When he started chatting with his ex again, I asked him to stop, he told me she was his friend and that too bad for me he was going to talk to her if he wanted to. I let it go. The final straw came when he refused to come with me to my oral surgery. So I broke up with him. Days after we broke up he started constantly hanging out with his ex.

I called him a few days ago to finally settle the matter of our joint bank accounts, only to receive harassing text messages from his ex. So I went over to his parents’ house and told them what was going on. They were so angry with my ex-fiance and promised me they'd have it taken care of. I went home and got into both of his my space accounts and deleted everything he had on them. I changed his display name to manwhore and wrote "My name is *name*. I'm a worthless waste of space. I have proven this time and time again to everyone who has ever loved me"

His sister found out and told his family. My ex and both his parents came over to my house to exchange the last of our things and to scream at me for his myspace accounts. Now his entire family thinks I'm the anti-Christ because of what I did to his myspace accounts, which when asked by his older sister, I later deleted the accounts. Never mind what their son did to me throughout our relationship and cheating on me in the end.

Truthfully? I really don't care. He deserved it and was a waste of a year and a half of my life. He wouldn't have been if he hadn't screwed me over in the end. Besides... its only myspace

One bad turn deserves another. What's the worst thing you did to get back at your ex?
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-18 05:19 pm (UTC)
wow...i don't understand why people do such petty bitchy things. i've never once attempted to get "revenge" after i a failed relationship. i try to take responsibility for my part in the relationship not working out (it's rarely one-sided) and end things with dignity. are you two such children that when something went wrong you had go tell on each other to his parents? and hacking his myspace accounts? that's just stupid.
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[User Picture]From: deadlycin
2006-08-18 05:29 pm (UTC)
When I ended the relationship with him we ended it on good terms. We both said it wasn't working out. I didn't hack his myspace accounts, he gave me his password. I went to his parents because I wanted the bank accounts taken care of. I didn't want to just go and close his savings account that *I* had been added on to. I wanted him to do it as i felt i had no right to close an account he opened. he was stupid enough to give his cell phone to his ex, and she was stupid enough to try and harass me.
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-18 05:31 pm (UTC)
I'm sure you were trusted with his password so that you could fuck with his accounts.
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[User Picture]From: fleshint0gear
2006-08-24 08:17 pm (UTC)
I've gone on my ex's myspace, too. I've never changed anything or messed with it in anyway, but it's fucking myspace. Why do people get so worked up?
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-18 05:30 pm (UTC)
I second this.
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-18 07:12 pm (UTC)
This is such a good one! But I have nothing to say.
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-18 07:14 pm (UTC)
The relationships I've been in have all ended dramatically and horribly enough that the ending alone was generally enough for me to ever want to think about it again. I'm not in contact AT ALL with any of them, so alas, revenge isn't really on the plate.

At least not TO them. One ex, I took a special framed picture of the two of us, punched through the glass of the frame and destroyed it, then burned the picture into nothing. The other I blocked any avenues of contact (e-mail, phone, bulletin boards) and threw everything 'special' to us in the trash, even though we were supposed to be "still friends" afterwards.

So...nothing really hardcore like fucking around with passwords or anything...but it was rather helpful to me to get all my anger out.
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-18 08:31 pm (UTC)
Told my big, mean, armed, politically connected friends about how my ex sexually assaulted me.

They are not pleased. All I need to do is give the green light, and he'll be at the bottom of the river. Windy motherfucking city, this is how we roll.
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-18 09:45 pm (UTC)
Revenge is a stupid waste of time. Much better to move on and be happy with someone else than to go back and try to kick their ass.
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-19 10:05 pm (UTC)
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-20 07:06 pm (UTC)
One of my ex's ripped up the pictures he had of me/ us right in front of me. I just laughed knowing I must have meant as much to him as he did to me.

I don't really seek revenge on people. even my ex who sexually abused me. I just don't talk to him.. and the only people who know what happened throughout our relationship are me, him, and my current boyfriend.
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-21 04:47 am (UTC)
grow up!

holy shit you are a fucking loser.

i can understand why he'd leave you.

way to go, shit-for-brains.
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[User Picture]From: deadlycin
2006-08-21 04:57 am (UTC)
learn to read. *I* left him.
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-21 05:49 am (UTC)
then why are you such a cunt to him?

learn to use your brain, bitch. if you left him, why would you go out of your way to seek revenge?

durrrrrrrrrr
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From: (Anonymous)
2006-08-21 07:31 am (UTC)
EVERYONE NEEDS TO STOP BITCHING!!!! I'D FUCK WITH HIS MYSPACE TOO. SHIT, I'D DO A LOT MORE THAN THAT. I'M JUST A SPITEFUL LITTLE BITCH AHHAH :) HE DESERVED IT!
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